Safety and Dating Guidelines

Meeting someone new should feel exciting, not risky. Use these guidelines as a practical starting point whenever you connect with another member.

Before You Meet

• Keep early conversations on the platform until trust is established.
• Ask clear questions about relationship goals, location, family situation, and daily lifestyle.
• Use a phone or video call before planning an in-person date.
• Never send money, gift cards, banking details, or identity documents to someone you met online.

For a First Date

• Choose a public place such as a cafe, museum, park, or restaurant.
• Tell a trusted friend or family member where you are going.
• Arrange your own transportation.
• Leave if anything feels uncomfortable or inconsistent.